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CommunityCategory: Female Orgasm5 Reasons You Should Never Fake An Orgasm
Anne delafontaine asked 2 years ago

You Deserve An Orgasm!

In the end, the main thing is this: you deserve a real orgasm, not a fake one. If what your guy is doing isn’t working for you, have him try doing something else. You don’t have to be like, “Oh man, that feels horrible.” Just instruct him to do something you know feels good. You should never feel like you need to act like everything he does is amazing – you deserve to have good sex also!

You Could Be Ruining Future Orgasms

Seriously, you’re really not doing yourself any favors here. Faking one orgasm can lead to faking a lot of orgasms. If a guy thinks whatever he was doing felt that good, guess what? He’s going to keep doing it. And then what are you going to do? Pretend it only felt that good that one time? Or fake more? It’s an endless cycle, girls.

It Could Be About Trust Issues

According to Self and Dr. Ian Kerner, faking it could mean something bigger than just trying to make a guy feel good: it could be a sign that you don’t really trust him. Dr. Ian Kerner says, “That may be part of the reason that she’s faking it. Not necessarily to hold on to her man, but because she doesn’t trust him enough to really be able to let go and have an orgasm.” If you feel like you’re seriously having trouble orgasming, this could totally be true and it’s definitely something to think about.

Help Another Girl Out!

Okay, this may be really weird to think about, but try considering your fellow ladies. If you fake orgasms with this dude, he’s going to go out there and do that same stuff to his next partner… and that sex might not be so great either. Look, I know it’s weird, but think of it as doing a service to other women. I think they’ll thank you later.

You Deserve An Orgasm!

In the end, the main thing is this: you deserve a real orgasm, not a fake one. If what your guy is doing isn’t working for you, have him try doing something else. You don’t have to be like, “Oh man, that feels horrible.” Just instruct him to do something you know feels good. You should never feel like you need to act like everything he does is amazing – you deserve to have good sex also!

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